Welcome to WISE, Women 50+ Intimate Stories!
Through StorySistas I am blessed to meet women. We share many stories including stories about intimacy and what intimacy means now after 50. I meet women who are having the best sex in their lives with their one partner, multiple partners, with their toys with or without a partner, and women who seldom or do not have sex, any sex.
One thing in common is that women after 50 are at peace with just the way we are. Even when we want more or different, there is an acceptance of now, a presence. I call it the wisdom of vaginas.
We are more than our vaginas, of course, more than our bodies and our sex. Every one of us is a culmination of more than fifty years of life experience. We are each a mother lode of knowledge and practice. After 50 we have an agreement with ourselves, who we are, and where we are, now.
Today our bodies and minds are first and foremost, ours.
WISE celebrates this wisdom, this presence, and peace.
WISE follows the door the 60’s opened and continues the feminine journey of freedom to self-love and fuller life experience. I invite you to be part of this celebration and exploration.
Is there anything intimate you’d like to share or know more about? Please share, let’s learn from each other.
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Story #6 How I found My Sensual, Sexual Self. I think it was 2014. One day I woke up and realized I haven’t had sex, or wanted to have sex, or thought about sex, in a very long time.read more
Story #5 The Surprising Effects of Exercise
It started to make sense after I read Hot Monogamy by Dr. Patricia Love. In the book she laid out the libidinous journey couples often take. You start with the person’s “set point” (mine has always been low)
I knew I would never mention this to Jeff. How could I? I might be non-judgmental, but I was also non-confrontational. Unable to imagine it wasn’t my fault.
I had forgotten and never mentioned this to anyone until now, twenty years later.
I felt rising up in me all the anxieties I had as a 13, 14, 15-year-old. I didn’t know they were all still there. I remember asking myself if I’m ok. Is everything about me all right? I thought about it for days. I was surprised at how anxious I became, at this age, at this time of my life.read more
Story #2 Fools Rush In Where Angels Prep to Tread
“Don’t rush!” my girlfriend warned me, “you haven’t had sex in so long, your body is not ready,” she added. My girlfriend who is seldom without a lover in her life. Somehow, somewhere, she’ll have some-one, so, she knows.
Story # 1 I’m A Lukewarmie/An Orgasm At Quito Airport
I exercise like a banshee and look great but I don’t see myself as a hottie; a woman who is comfortable with her body, who loves her body, has no hang-ups whatsoever, ever; and has great sex, a LOT of great sex. That’s not me.